Unreasonable

Spent last night bawling my eyes out..we had another argument..I blew my top...her birthday is not until November..she's planning a birthday this Saturday..I told her months ago to move her date...no of course she didn't ..

Her dad..she's organising her party let her be...so last night I asked her what are you guys eating then? ..thinking they are having pizza...oh..12 girls..1 vegetarian..they want to have grilled fish wrapped in rice paper roll..sit down meal..lol..

I told him..well why not have grilled steak wrapped then..easier..so he sat there and we had a screaming contest...he then ..oh..I'll do it then...me..bugger hell you will..both of us working Friday..Saturday you work till late..by the time you get out the fish place will be closed..Saturday morning they have got VN class..not to mention I have a lunch with my girl friends booked months ago before this birthday fiasco..

who the hell do you think will be lug with it? me...bathrooms and toilets are not cleaned..the damn house is in a mess..how am I going to get it done in time? damn it...it will take atleast a week to clear up the mess..

his answer..move everything into the garage..and put in storage..damn him...he won't store it down the street citing costs..he wants it store like 45 minutes drive away..who the hell is going to drive the stuff down there to store? ..lol..

I don't know how..they can't even keep it nice and orderly..I clean and 5 minutes later it is back to usual...

he goes she's been planning it for months..for months my ass...12 girls..530-1030pm..what the hell are we going to do with them? ..she only asked me last night what games to play..no party bags as yet..no cake as yet..nothing..

damn him...I am a mum yes...I am suppose to worry about these things..she's only 14 for heavensake..

am I being unreasonable? lol...needed the next 2 days to do my paperwork so I can hand in to work..since working Friday..still got to organise the unit down in Geelong so I can return it...now all I can see is the next two days will be tied up cleaning the damn place...and grocery shopping..

why can't she just have a BBQ?? paper plates..who is going to wash all that dishes..I have had enough...there's dishes everywhere..there's clothes everywhere..there's crap everywhere...