I don't mind helping people who really need help..I resent helping those that won't help themselves..I resent people/family using us..taking advantage of our goodness to fuel their wants..
Had a long talk to him last night...told him if he lends the money then it should be the very last time..after all we have been lending money to them for the last 16 years..lol..not that I can see that 11K coming back..they have trouble even returning 2-3K let alone 11K...lol..coi như là cho anh chị ..lol..
Had to put my foot down this time..it is after all his money..and after all his family..it is not like we have money sitting there..will have to redraw on the mortgage..
Told him he is only fueling the vicious cycle..they have been giựt gấu vá vai for all of their lives ..when there is no more gấu to giựt then they come to us to borrow..borrow for the month...return the money for a week then borrow again...lol..
with interest rates so high on credit cards..on the many hụi that they play..better to say no this time...let them grow up..let them sell their house to take care of their debts..let them do it..what is the harm in saying no for once? they need to grow up..take responsibility for their actions..lol..it is not like they are 16...they are in their 50s ...lol..
wonders what will happen today? yesterday he told his brother that he has no money and will ask his best friend for it to buy us some time..I don't really care either way...just hope it is the very last time...
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