I Should

I should be wearing my wedding ring...yes I should...but I don't ...

for the simple fact that I hate anything on me...the other thing is we wash hands all the time at work..germs everywhere..I wear it and the soap get caught and I get eczema where the ring is...

I know I used to wear it..and I know he gets sad when he sees my finger bared..but he should know by now...

it doesn't mean I don't love him...I do wear it sometimes...when I miss it..and then a few days later it comes off again..feels like it is biting into my finger...

the other day I confided in one of my patients that it took me 10 minutes to show hubby where I have popped my wedding ring ..I had left it in the coin holder...luckily it was still there after the car was serviced...

we were talking about how men could never find anything...

today I came in to give her her discharge meds and she's remembered...she asked me if I'd found the ring ? 

she then said you'd better wear your ring ..you might be giving people the wrong idea..I replied... it's okie..everyone here knows I am married...

she confided one time years ago when she was younger...she's left her ring off and a guy asked her out...she told him she was married and he flew in a fit...demanding to know why if she was married why she wasn't wearing her ring...

which reminds me..better go to the car and find a safe place for my ring...

yes...the safest place is on my finger..but it's hot..and my fingers swell...okie okie..just another excuse..

will wear it when I go home this weekend..just to make him happy...